Extra-Relational Involvement Among Black, Indigenous, and People of Color Relationships: Conceptualization and Treatment

This chapter extends the exploration of infidelity within Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC) relationships. Infidelity, or extra-relational involvement (ERI), is a widespread yet frequently misunderstood phenomenon, often engendering discomfort and a sense of unpreparedness in clinicians seeking to address it. Building upon the foundational concepts introduced in the previous chapter, this installment delves deeper into the conceptualization and treatment of infidelity in BIPOC relationships. In the previous chapter, the authors presented an ecological framework adapted from the Ecological Couples Systems Diagram (ECSD) and Bronfenbrenner’s ecological systems model. This framework was designed to systematically explore the intricate layers within client systems, particularly in the context of diverse backgrounds and intercultural, interfaith relationships. The authors use the ECSD model as a backdrop to discuss evidence-driven strategies for conceptualizing and addressing infidelity in BIPOC relationships. Drawing upon Gottman Method Couples Therapy (GMCT) as the clinical framework, this chapter offers specific recommendations for adapting and expanding the treatment process to accommodate cultural and gender variables. It provides a comprehensive blueprint for clinicians, enabling them to effectively address infidelity in BIPOC relationships while preventing potential pathologization and unintended harm.